Sunday, November 11, 2012

America is Changing

The re-election of President Obama and the Democratic platform of values signals a big shift in the cultural thinking of most Americans.

America is changing right in front of our eyes – and not for the better.

In a “progressive” movement away from the values of God towards the values of the world, the nation is shifting quickly. Liberalism has always been a part of our society but the agenda of the current Administration in DC is more telling than ever. For goodness sake, the word “God” was removed from their political platform before being put back in after three votes (and listening to the recordings make it clear more were opposed than in favor of).

The Bible tells us in the end times that the world would embrace earthly morals and turn further and further away from God. We are watching it take place like a virtual reality show. Each election more conservatives lose. Each election more votes go for the party that supports more abortions, more handouts, less God, and the homosexual agenda.

God help us.

It can be unsettling and very frustrating to observe our amazing country fold into itself. America has always been the light to the world in many ways. But not much anymore.

But as time marches on we must hold tight to the following truths:

1. God is in control. In the end, He will reign and every knee will bow before Him
2. He told us these times were coming and He will be with us
3. He will come for us before it gets real bad
4. We can and should focus on making a difference in our own communities
5. We need to continue to stand for the values of God even if we keep losing

I know for me, I will still love and thank God for America. I will still vote, get choked up when I hear a good national anthem and celebrate our fun patriotic holidays. We are still a nation with millions that worship Him and millions that beleive in His values. We are just not the majority anymore.

Now is the time to enjoy the family, your church, and life as you know it. Times might get even tougher. But our joy is new every morning and He is our source of happiness. Heaven is our future.

And, as the country gets darker and people struggle more and more, they are going to want to know one simple thing - how is that you can smile?
"Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." Romans 12:12 



(c) 2012, J. Brady

"I say it how I see it and make no bones about it.”








Sunday, November 04, 2012

Where I Belong

Emily was born in 2004 in a suburb of Dallas. She was so cute. A little thing, weighing just 5.7 ounces. Fit right in the palm of my hand. Her little nose was the most precious thing ever and her eyes pierced your soul.

Within a few weeks I went to see her again at the hospital and she was full of life. Grunting and squirming like the others around her. Yet, something about Emily was different. Just not sure what it was. Strange thing is she almost seemed to recognize me when I came near. Her little eyes perked up and she became more active. I enjoyed just feeding her and loving on her. She was so soft and cuddly it put tears in my eyes. I knew whoever she belonged to was certainly blessed beyond words. She had to be the joy of their life.

Nine months later I was asked to drop by and visit a local shelter for children in the area. In the States we don’t like to call them what they are – orphanages. But they do exist. Last I had heard nearly 30,000 kids alone in Fort Worth needed to be adopted and needed a family. It’s a sad truth but over 3,000,000 in these United States don’t have anyone to call “mom” or “dad”. I could never understand that. Just broke my heart.

My wife and I had thought about adopting at some point. But despite my career and volunteering efforts, we never took it any farther than just a random thought. If God wanted us to He would make it clear, right? Besides, adoption was kind of like a final option if the wife had issues having kids. We wanted to have our own children.

Making my rounds in this shelter and seeing all of the children without homes was never easy though. Kids just reflect God’s love and grace like nothing else. They loved the attention no matter the age. The baby area always got to me too. I just couldn’t wrap my mind around these little ones being homeless. But it happens.

Walking in that day I spent time going from crib to crib and bed to bed loving on those precious kids. The entire time I prayed asking God to take care of these little ones. After all, everyone deserves to be loved and everyone deserves a family.

Walking around a corner a lady approached me with a bundle in her arms.

“Can you hold her a second?” she asked. “I need to attend to something and this one has really been an issue the last few weeks. She just won’t stop crying.”

“Sure,” I said taking the bundle with a smile. I knew my magic would probably calm the little one down.

“Now, now,” I said as I looked down at the child.

Staring back at me was Emily.

I nearly lost it at that moment. Thoughts rushed through my mind faster than I could process them. I was speechless. How could this little bundle of love be in this place? Where were her parents? The outrage and pain hit me right in the chest. Didn’t she belong to someone?

Her eyes perked up and immediately she stopped crying. Piercing my mind, her eyes begged for belonging and familiarity. I was something she knew.

I didn’t know what to do in that moment but one thing was certain, I had to do something. I mean, you don’t just emotionally decide to take a child home like you would a puppy, do you? Emotions were all over the place.

I sat in a chair. Time was frozen.

Little Emily just snuggled up against me and fell asleep. Peace.

A few hours later Emily’s care worker came to get her from me. “Wow,” she said seeing her asleep. “You really do have some magic. This little girl has been a pain for months. Finally, we can get some peace around here.”

Her words weren’t mean for harm, but they hit me in the gut like a Mike Tyson punch.

“You want peace!?” I thought. “What about little Emily?”

I left that day and cried for hours on the way home. My life would never be the same.

Eighteen years later my wife and I cried once again as we watched Emily cross the stage at her graduation. Our daughter was on the way to adulthood. That same personality at 9 months of age was alive and well. She was the life of the show most of the time. Too many friends to even count. She was smarter than all of us and was headed to college in the fall to begin her career in robotic medicine. God always has a plan doesn’t He?

I still visit those children a few times a year and since then more than one friend of ours has also given a child a family to call their own.

Nearly two decades ago I had no idea how much life was about to change for so many when I walked in to that shelter that day.

But one thing will never change as long as we all shall live. Emily didn't belong in that shelter.

Emily belonged to us.

"Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows." Isaiah 1:17


(c) 2012, J. Brady

"I say it how I see it and make no bones about it.”


(this was a fictional account of adoption)