Brady Speers shares faith based stories based in the realities of family, friends, kids, dogs, sports, business, politics and everything else in between.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Antlers, the Claw and Jesus
That is unless your sports wood is wet.
For Texas Rangers fans 2010 was a historical journey nearly 40 years in the making that few in the Metroplex are soon to forget. Thanks to the help of some unlikely ingredients – “the claw”, “antlers” and Josh Hamilton’s Jesus, the North Texas baseball team finally broke free of the doldrums of the American League West and not only won a playoff series, but finished off the New York Yankees in considerable fashion in route to their first World Series in franchise history.
The Houston Astros were the first Texas team to do it back in 2005, but even they hadn’t waited in the dark for good baseball as long as Ranger fans had; just 3 playoff trips with just one win and no wins at home!
All season long this underdog, underpaid team of good guys faced transition, hardship and confusion only to fight back each and every time until their goals were accomplished one by one. Soon, two rally cries became “the thing” as “the claw” (symbolizing power and strength) and finger “antlers” (symbolizing speed like a deer) became the craze. Along side those was the incredible real-life story of team MVP Josh Hamilton, whose drug addicted, self-destructive past was turned into a modern life example of the power of Christ. Though not perfect, Hamilton demonstrated a consistent example to us all of humility and dependency on God. Standing on the stage in front of millions on TV while accepting his ALCS MVP trophy he said these words:
“First of all, all the glory goes to God and Jesus Christ. Secondly, I love my teammates,” Hamilton said. “I love them so much. I’m happy to have them. I don’t want to talk about myself. I want to talk about them. We are the reason we are here.”
If only more sports heroes were like this man. Heck, if only more of us reading this article were like him. What a difference we all could make.
Hamilton is so loved and respected by his teammates that after winning the division, and both playoff series, they reserved a special post-game celebration time for him to be sprayed and showered with non-alcoholic drinks. His teammates understood his weaknesses and respected his faith. In our world of intolerance towards all things Jesus, this was simply amazing.
The more real you are and the more you take a stand, the more those around you will embrace who you are. Even the most hardcore cynic has to admit Hamilton is one of a kind. He can cream baseballs out of every park in America and never blink about who gives him that ability. His career and life was saved both literally and spiritually by the only real thing many of us honestly hide under our bushels all too often.
During the World Series you can bet those of us in the DFW are will have our antlers up and our claws out. Only time will tell if the journey ends with a championship over the San Francisco Giants.
Regardless, baseball in Texas is giving those Cowboys a run for their money and over here in this stadium we call Rangers Ballpark in Arlington, Jesus gets a spotlight.
Go Rangers!
“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.” 1 Corinthians 16:13
© 2010, J. Brady
"I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Friday, October 15, 2010
Life Before Kids....How Boring
Remember it?
• Sleep past 9…every Saturday.
• Money in the bank
• Never touched, smelled or tasted poop (admit it –I know some of you out there have gotten the stuff in your mouth)
• Still “pee free”; meaning no human was yet to wet on you
• Big boy movies and TV shows were watched in REAL time most days or night
• 90% of your saved recordings weren’t from kids channels
• Milk never ran out
• Precious items around the house were fully intact and working
• Carpet was crisp and clean
• You didn’t own a mini-van
Life was good…or…so you thought.
On the way to work one morning recently I paused mentally and thought about my life with three kids, a wife and two dogs. I smiled so big I nearly wrecked into the completely stopped MiniCooper in front of me on HWY 360. (I’m sure everyone around me assumed I was texting.)
Regardless, it hit me that the life I had now was what “it” was all about. Kids truly make the world go ‘round and nothing is more rewarding than guiding another human being through the maze of it all. Sure sometimes you want to ship them off to the closest zoo but, to be honest life would be a little boring if you did.
My three kids are all 5 or younger as I write this and some of the words they use and comments they make prove my point perfectly. I’m sure you have a similar list.
Enjoy…
“Dad, why did God make brothers so mean?” Chloe asked me one day.
“CrapNCrunch” – what my son called Captain Crunch cereal for a long time
“ToothKip” –my daughter would say when she needed a toothpick
“I want to do magic so I can make Quinn disappear.” my daughter Chloe said at age 5.
“Daddy, I like when you say that.” Sidney said at age 5 with a very bashful look on her face when I told her she are pretty and she could sing well.
“Daddy, this is hard work.” my son Quinn said in all seriousness at age 3 when he was helping me rake leaves in the back yard.
“I got this bruise when I was running around the house with my shirt over my head and ran into the coffee table” Chloe said.
“Mom, that man has a lot of stamps” Quinn said pointing at a man with tattoos all over his arms at a local fast food restaurant.
I still laugh-out-loud when I think about this hilarious examples and I wish I had days to pillage through the mounds of others many of you reading this could send me.
Life might have been fun and more financially free before kids, but life without them would seem incomplete.
Many things are certain about kids, they stress you out, they break the bank, they do not use their brains often, and they stink most of the time. But only thing is certainly clear – nothing makes you understand love more than having a few.
Thank you God for kids. And thanks for letting us be yours.
Now I get it.
“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!” Psalm 127:3-5
© 2010, J. Brady
"I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Friday, October 01, 2010
The Great Game
Living south of Houston most of my childhood, dad would take me to a nice handful of games each year at the huge Astrodome. It always seemed I would get a gift as I walked in ranging from free hats, small bats, baseballs and such, some of which I now hold in my sports collection. As the games would get late, we would leave early knowing it was usually a school night and a 45 minute drive was ahead of us. Milo Hamilton kept us informed of the action we missed and eventually I fell asleep.
There is just something magical about baseball games.
Now as a parent, I am getting joy of doing the same for my three kids as dad did for me, taking them to see the Texas Rangers at the Ballpark in Arlington. Watching them cheer “Let’s go Rangers! (clap…clap…clap, clap, clap!), seeing them munch down on cotton candy, hoping “red” wins the dot race, and them asking all about the happenings during the game brings me the same joy my dad must have felt way back when.
Kids love games and baseball keeps it simple and real. A ball, a glove and a bat. And nothing is better than sitting out in the stands during a 75 degree evening cheering on the home team. The sounds of “ice, cold beer!”, “peanuts!”, and the smells of hotdogs and nachos stick in the mind for ages.
I still get down to Houston for an Astros game at least once a year. Though I usually go alone, I sit with a smile on my face cheering like I was 10 years old thinking about those nights with dad and Milo talking us home. At the age of 38 my Astros finally won the National League pennant and made it to the World Series. I can only hope our Rangers go all the way for my kiddos a little faster than the 30+ years it took Houston.
It’s said baseball is truly America’s Pastime and I have to say I completely agree. Nothing is more true. God gave us something special when we invented it over 100 years ago.
It’s a great way, to have a great time…at the great game!
"This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalm 118:24
© 2010, J. Brady
”I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Monday, September 27, 2010
The Love of Money
Money makes the world go ‘round. Right? Well, sadly, it does require money to keep the lights on, to feed the family and to support God’s work around the world.
The problem for most of us of course, there never seems to be enough of it. The money runs out before the month, the debts pile high and Benjamin Franklins can be more elusive than Bigfoot.
Personally, I have experienced both the days of much and the days of little. God has used both to show me truths about life and about His provision. I know both wealthy people and poor people that love God more in ways that inspire me.
Whatever your current financial lot in life, you can know God will provide. He will meet our needs for food, shelter, clothing and most importantly joy. Life isn’t about what you can buy, where you can go or what you can do. Life is about who you are and who you spend it with.
Sure having a little excess in the money department makes life a little easier to deal with. But knowing God is on your side makes life good and peaceful even when the account is below zero.
Cold, hard cash really isn’t the root of all evil.
It’s the LOVE of money that’s the problem.
“Keep your life free from the love of money, and be content with what you have.” Hebrews 13:5
© 2010, J. Brady
”I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Quinn and the Lizard
Here is what happened...
I came home to take over on kid duty. Getting ready to take the kids out for our favorite pizza run with good ol' Daddy.
"Everyone go get your shoes on," I said. The girls complied. As usual Quinn pretended to not hear and started wandering around.
A few minutes later...
"Quinn go get your flip flops on now!"
"But there is a lizard in there," he said with a very poor attempt at crying.
"Whatever!"
Knowing he pulls these kinds of stunts all the time, looking for any reason to not obey, I wasn't about to be fooled.
"Go get your flip flops now or we are not going!"
"Whaaa!" he started crying a little harder.
"Quinn!"
I began pushing him towards the small basket the kids kept their shoes in.
Still he refused, frustrating me more.
Finally, I gave in.
"Never mind...we don't have time for this."
I started digging around the basket for his flip flops. "See!" I proudly proclaimed, "There are no lizards in here."
Right about then he screamed and I looked down at my hand to see a large Gecko running around the outer edge of the basket!
"Holy crap!" I yelled. (I couldn't help it).
By then the girls had joined the commotion and everything ran from the scene screaming, including myself with the basket in hand.
Quickly I opened the front door and the little dude jumped off on the porch.
"I'm so sorry buddy!" I said while hugging a sobbing Q-ster. "There WAS a lizard in there!"
Thank God Father of the Year awards are later in the winter!
What a scene.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Buddha Won't Tame the Tiger
He is arguably the most famous athlete on the planet.
In the last 14 years he has won tournament after tournament, earned more than any golfer in history and has two cute kids after marrying what some say is the most beautiful sports wife in the world.
But in the fall of 2009 the world learned that Tiger was on the loose with a trail of infidelity that was even more shocking than any of his wins. Most of us could not comprehend the depth of the sexual depravity Tiger pursued. As a result, his life was changed forever and a year later he is without his reputation, his wife, his family, most of his endorsements and his ability to succeed on the course.
When he apologized to the world months later, Tiger stood in front of the world and proclaimed he had lost his way and that he was going to lean on his faith to start over and clean up - his faith in Buddha that is.
Over a billion people all over the world put their faith in Buddhism which teaches to focus on self enlightenment through suffering and right living. Sadly, almost a billion people have it all wrong.
Buddha won’t tame Tiger. Only the spirit of the living God has that kind of power. For any man that deals with lust and temptation (and if you are a man, you do), we know in the overly sexual society in which we live that God’s power is our only hope. The flesh cannot be tamed merely by will power or via the pathway formulate by a man that lived long ago and is still dead.
We have to depend on God and not on ourselves. For when we depend on ourselves or anything other than God, we fail. Tiger fell hard. But don’t be fooled, he wasn’t thinking this would happen to him and each of us is could fall just has hard.
Tiger still has the three things some people in the world want the most – money, fame, and power.
His price?
The thing he loved the most – his family.
Only the one that created the Tiger can tame one and it’s our job to give Him the reigns every single day.
I can only pray Tiger let’s Jesus paint him some new stripes.
"Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more.” Ephesians 4:19
© 2010, J. Brady"
I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Saturday, July 03, 2010
An Age Old Christian Debate
The debate ensues and at either spectrum lies extreme Charismatics or radical Fundamentalist. The irony being our political system here in America runs on the same tracks. Right or Left. Conservative or Liberal, etc. Very few really ride down the middle.
For me, I have spent a fair amount of time on both sides; growing up Baptist and later spending years in the Charismatic movement on staff as a youth minister. Both sides have some things figured out and certainly each can make strong scripture based cases for their views, but both extremes miss the mark in great ways if you ask me.
The extreme Charismatics focus on the "power and presence" of God, spending more time in long, emotional worship services than in actual Bible study. Prayers are long and focus on asking God for various things and begging Him to reveal His power and glory. It seems they search for God's hand in terms of wanting to see Him do something, more than they desire to know Him deeper through the main thing He gave us to study, the Bible. Leaders within this circle preach exceptionalism, God's goodness and grace, healing, joy, faith, success, with some being called "name in claim it" or "prosperity" preachers. They believe God is a friend, loves us, wants the best for us, has good things in store for His children, that we can glorify Him by being successful, enjoying life and having a good attitude, and that all bad things can work out for the better if you just believe. They point out various heroes in the Bible who had wealth and success, including Jesus who they claim was self-sufficient and maybe even wealthy Himself due to working in the family carpentry business or gifts He received as a child from local kings. Essentially, they strongly believe a better "self" brings great glory to God and the more you have the more you can bless others.
The radical Fundamentalist focus on knowing God more deeply through His word and the fellowship of other believers, spending less time in worship and more time in deep theological discussions about various books and verses in the Bible. Prayers are brief and focus on adoration of who God is and asking for insight into who He is by asking Him to reveal Himself through His word. Leaders within this circle preach the coming of God's anger and judgment, focus on God's holiness and man's failures, teach deep theological truths, studying every word of every line of scripture for deep, life changing meaning and and that sacrificing one's "self" is the ultimate goal to glorify God. Though the core belief that God is good is intact, the focus is centralized on God's holiness and essentially that man, and certainly our lives here, does not matter. They have an intense desire to be right with God and know Him more. They judge the world around them, even other believers, and seek to be "holy" as He is holy. Seeking good things here in this temporal life is a general waste of time and if we really love God we will live as Christ did, which according to them, was as a homeless/jobless man, with nothing to His name, calling out the evil in the world around Him, running from the law of the day, but serving others all along the way. Essentially, they strongly believe that denying "self" brings God all the glory and the less you have the more unhindered you are.
Ugh...can you see the mess we have?
It seems possessions, money and wealth remain a central core to this entire debate too. But let's take a look and see what we can come up with.
Was Jesus really a homeless/jobless man with no earthly possessions or money? What about the expensive gifts (worth millions) He was given at birth? What about growing up in the family business? Did we really think He begged for food, wandered the streets asking for money? Did the society of His day require money in order to survive or did He just create it with a twinkle of the eye when more was needed? Surely He worked, right....at least before He entered the ministry fulltime. Would He create us with the internal drive to "work" and provide if He didn't do the same when here as a man? In the same sense do possessions here on earth really mean a hill of beans? What IS the point? We can build pyramids to store it all in when we die, but they won't go with us, we know that. Yet, the world requires money, and lots of it, and the more of it you have, the more you can give to those in need, the more ministries you can support and the less dependent on your worldly job you are. On the other hand, money can destroy a man if he isn't careful. A quandary for some for sure.
Just food for though - one side of a story few think about - when Jesus called Peter and his men to be "fishers of men" He performed a miracle by overflowing their boat with fish to the point of sinking. Jackpot for sure. They likely sold all of that fish for tons of money. Jesus made a point while helping a brother out. The fish helped their temporal life for a few days or weeks, but their focus needed to be on the bigger things Christ was asking them to do.Outside of America, Christianity is certainly different looking. We are so blessed in the U.S. it is hard to fathom. Other people's of the world are lucky to have bread or water for the day yet as believers they passionately worship and study His word. Possessions mean nothing. Only God is the source of any "abundance" in their lives. They seem to more diligently seek Him, spending 10-12 hours at a time, sometimes in secret studies or meetings. I have no doubt that life's circumstances can greatly affect our walk with Christ. The Israelites sought God more when in captivity than when free. All the same, when we are hit with despair, tragedy, oppression, suffering, pain, illness, death or loss we naturally seek God more than when life is just rosy. Some might even believe our American freedoms prohibit us from knowing God deeper and though I ceraintly pray we never have to live the way believers in China or North Korea do, I find it hard to argue their point.
Sad but true.
The bottom line for me is this - until Christ returns and we share His eyes so that all things become clear to each of us - believers are going to seek God in different ways and neither extreme is healthy.
Balance is really the key and here is what I can only hope to teach my kids to believe.
You can serve God with all of your heart and enjoy life here to the fullest. God is good and loves us as His children. We should trust and believe in God's grace, mercy and goodness having hope tomorrow can be better than today. God's power is great; He can heal illnesses and move mountains yet knowing Him deeply is more important than anything. We should seek His face more than His hand. Sometimes He moves in power, but Jesus did more small things to show Himself each day than perform miracles of power. Only His word can truly be trusted in terms of seeking His will and way. He can make bad things in our lives bring Him glory. God is holy and in His presence we are filthy, dirty and plain stink - thank God He saved us - and every day we remind ourselves that we don't deserve to be saved. There are both wealthy and poor Biblical heroes. Whatever our "lot in life" brings us (wealth, health, poverty, illness or the like) we should glorify Him by how we talk, act and serve mankind around us. What we do for the lost around us is going to have a greater impact on them than what we say. We can ask God for anything and we should. God is on our side. God doesn't intend to see His children suffer but if it is necessary He will allow it. We should tell others about Christ and that without Him they are destined to hell. It is more important to give than receive but if we live "giving" lives we will be blessed. We should stand up and speak out for Christ and His values in the dark world we live and yes, our world is a very, bad, bad world right now. Above all, we will be known by how we love those around us, including our neighbors and enemies.
God is love.
See? Isn't that simple? Guess that settles that!
"Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." I Corinthians 13:12-13
© 2010, J. Brady
“I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Thursday, April 08, 2010
Be Like Mike - A Star We Can Embrace
And boy did Dallas embrace this one.
The Dallas Stars played their final home game tonight ending a long, boring, non-playoff season on the ice. While most of the DFW area begs for Cowboys football, gears up for the Rangers and prepares for another Mavericks playoff run, in the background the Stars were slowly getting closer to another off season.
Yet this one game felt like those great games in the late 90s. The AAC was standing room only, the crowd was rowdy and loud and the game was amazing. Dallas beat Anaheim 3-2 in a shoot out...but that's not even important.
This was all about Mike Modano. Sadly, it was likely his last in Dallas and maybe his last home game ever.
In classic Modano fashion he thrilled the crowd with another assist and two goals; one the game tying and the other the game winner. Outside of Wayne Gretzky few players have impacted the sport more than he. And certainly, when people think of hockey in Dallas, they think of Mike.
The Cowboys had Roger.
The Mavs have Dirk.
The Rangers had Pudge.
The Stars had Modano.
I remember meeting Modano (briefly) at Texas Star in Euless back in 1998 along with Brett Hull and the band Pantera. I had no idea the next year they would win the Stanley Cup and win the hearts of the metroplex.
I just can't believe it has been that many years and that it is over.
As Modano stood on the ice tonight saluting the fans with tears in his eyes during one of his many long standing ovations, I too choked back some sports tears. As fans emotions are strongly tied to those that give us local civic pride. And above most others, Modano is one classic dude. He lives a quiet life. Loves his family and gives back to the DFW area more than most. He is a true role model for all of us. It's just a shame more aren't like him.
Life just goes too fast.
Dallas will miss Mike, and it was obvious tonight that Mike will miss Dallas.
"A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold." Proverbs 22:1
© 2010, J. Brady
“I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."
Monday, March 22, 2010
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
Little Cadine
Yet, in the twinkle of an eye she became an orphan. Now little Cadine lays on an old mattress crying out for mommy and daddy to come home.
The sad truth is the recent Haitian earthquake has taken the lives of thousands of men, women and children, forever shattering the landscape of the Haitian people. Life will never be the same and for thousands of sweet little girls and boys their parents will never return.
Can you imagine a child not having someone to call “mommy” or “daddy”? Pause a moment from eating that bowl of cookies-n-crème, turn on CNN and that reality will be right in front of your content eyeballs.
The greatest joy in life is giving, and no greater love is this; than laying down your life (as you know it now) for another. A decision you make today could change the lives of one of these orphans forever.
Consider adopting now.
Speaking from personal experience, adopting a child is one of the greatest thrills imaginable. It stretches your faith beyond all limitations, teaches you the truth about sacrifice, and fills your soul with an amazing sense of significance.
God does something magical in your life when you decide to provide an orphan a lifetime of love. You will sense His presence, His favor and His hand in your life like never before. You only live once! Are you really ready to miss out on doing something beyond your own little world? Adopting doesn’t “change” your life. It only makes it better!
You can change and bless a little Cadine today. Orphans by the thousands are arriving in the States daily. They deserve and need a family and it might very well be YOU that God is calling to do so.
People often say this to us about our son, “Ahh, he is blessed to have you!”
Our response is always the same – “No, trust me. We are the one’s that are blessed to have him!”
Contact Dillon International today!
http://www.dillonadopt.com/Haiti_screen.htm
“Mordecai had a cousin named Hadassah, whom he had brought up because she had neither father nor mother. This girl, who was also known as Esther, was lovely in form and features, and Mordecai had taken her as his own daughter when her father and mother died.” Esther 2:7
© 2010, J. Brady"
“I say it how I see it and I make no bones about it."